How to Create a Great Dating Profile
At Twyned, we’re all about intentional dating. Our platform is designed to help you move beyond endless small talk and toward real-world connections—but it all starts with a strong profile.
Your dating profile is your first impression. It’s how you show potential matches who you are, what you’re into, and whether you’re someone they’d want to meet. Here’s how to build a profile that feels authentic, attracts the right kind of attention, and sets you up for meaningful, in-person dates.
What Makes a Great Profile?
Be Yourself—Not a Highlight Reel
You don’t need to be a world traveler or gourmet chef to be interesting. Profiles that feel real and grounded are far more appealing than ones that feel curated for likes.
Use clear, current photos that actually look like you. Smiling, eye contact, and natural settings go a long way.
Include a mix of interests—things you like to do on a weekend, go-to spots in your city, or favorite ways to spend a Sunday.
Avoid clichés like “I love to laugh” or “work hard, play hard.” Instead, say what makes you laugh or how you like to unwind.
Showcase What You’re Looking For
Twyned isn’t for people trying to collect matches—they’re here to go on real dates. Help people know if you’re aligned.
Mention whether you’re new to town, dating seriously, or just curious to meet people over coffee or tacos.
If you already have favorite first-date spots, say so! It adds personality and makes it easier for matches to envision meeting you.
Keep It Kind and Confident
Profiles that feel welcoming are more likely to get matches. You don’t need to oversell yourself, but confidence matters.
Use positive language: “I’m passionate about…” or “I get excited when…” instead of listing what you don’t want.
Think of it as a conversation starter, not a resume.
Tips for Picking the Right Photos
Your photos should reflect who you are—not just how you look. A good rule of thumb is to include:
1 clear headshot (no filters, sunglasses, or heavy edits)
1 full-body photo in a casual setting (like a park, bar, or event)
1 action or candid shot doing something you enjoy (hiking, at a concert, painting, etc.)
1 social photo with friends or at an event—just make sure you're easy to identify
Avoid group-only photos, photos with exes cropped out, or ones that feel overly polished (like corporate headshots or modeling shots). Twyned is about real connections—not highlight reels.
Profile Don’ts (And Why They Matter)
To make the most of your experience—and respect others doing the same—avoid the following:
Leaving your profile mostly blank. This makes it harder for others to get a sense of who you are.
Oversexualizing your photos or bio. Twyned is about intentional dating, not hookups. Respect the tone of the community.
Using outdated photos. If your hair, style, or vibe has changed a lot, show who you are now.
Being negative. Profiles that list turn-offs, complaints, or deal-breakers tend to push people away. Focus on what excites you.
The Twyned Difference
Because Twyned doesn’t allow messaging before the first date is scheduled, your profile does a lot of the talking. It's your opportunity to share enough for someone to feel excited and safe saying yes to a date.
Remember: People on Twyned can only message up to an hour before the date begins, so your profile helps establish connection in advance.
The more open and genuine you are, the more likely you’ll connect with someone who’s aligned.
Final Thought
A great profile won’t attract everyone—but it will attract the right people. Be yourself, be intentional, and be open. Your next date might just be one match away.
